How to Treat a Lady

Essay by Jose Machado

A lady is someone special who deserves respect and good treatment. After all, life in this world would not be interesting without them. Therefore, it is important to understand that there are many types of women, and that they have different tastes and desires. In other words, a guy may be likeable for some of them, but not for all of them. Having this in mind, many things have to be considered when dealing with such nice creatures. Listening to what they have to say is necessary, in order to understand what their hobbies, way of thinking, tastes, among other things, are. After having gathered all the important information about them, steps can be taken to attempt to make a closer successful approach on the female. If the girl reacts positively to the approach, then comes the time for the treatment that she deserves depending on her unique personality.

Initially, listening to what the lady has to say is fundamental when it comes to understanding her mind and personality. Nevertheless, most of them are enigmatic and difficult to comprehend in some cases. Eventually, after a long conversation or many of these verbal exchanges, some clues are given as to what she actually thinks and likes. Thus, allowing for a better understanding of the girl, which can help to proceed with confidence. For that matter, the information acquired from these conversations can facilitate on the following step.

Subsequently, after understanding her mind and desires, an approach attempt is the natural step that would come next. Depending on the personality of the girl, an approach could be successful or not. Simply knowing her likes or dislikes is vital when it comes to gaining her confidence. The value of confidence has no equal and no comparison. If it’s lost, then recovering it might be very difficult, and sometimes when confidence is recovered, it is never as it used to be. Therefore, honesty must always be upfront at the beginning of a relationship if it is to last and be taken seriously.

Ultimately, the treatment given to the lady will define the characteristic of the relationship. Depending on the type of girl and her personality, a certain style of treatment can be implemented. For example, some girls like to be treated like a queen, but others do not. So it is mandatory to realize which type is being dealt with. Regardless, it has to be understood that there are limits to the treatment decided upon. If a female who likes to be treated very well is given everything all the time, she will either get spoiled or will get bored very quickly. Thus, it is key not to waste all the resources at the same time, but to please her in small quantities from time to time. Don’t show too much interest, but at the same time show some. A balance must be kept, to keep her interest alive.

To culminate, women are not so easy to interact with, due to their mysterious nature and the variety of personalities among them. Ironically, those are the traits that make interacting with them more interesting and intriguing. Moreover, the challenge presented with treating a lady makes it rewarding when success, by gaining her total interest, is achieved. Hence, listening carefully to what she says and understanding her personality will eventually help when it comes to taking a successful approach; and also, in the treatment she likes and deserves.